I read this post of yours and had to comment! My “faith-community” sounds very similar to yours. It’s called the Spring and we’re currently underground, meaning that our official gathering happens once a week in a home and once a month or so we do a bigger event to draw people in. Rarely do we “advertise” our gatherings — the people who seek to come are usually those who are relationally driven, as I think you put it above. It’s really encouraging to me to find someone else who is part of a community that has similar characteristics to mine. Sometimes we feel that there’s no one else like us and it’s cool to meet you!